"Just Being Me"

Let me Paint a Picture for you, You like this guy and you want nothing more than to get with him, You have told him on numerous ocassions and you get no respond. HE'S JUST NOT THAT  INTO YOU. Every once in a while you flirt with a touch and he respond slightly because he has that reputation of being a Nice guy. So you figure he is in a relationship, but you dont want a relationship, you just want a cuddie buddie..No respond..HE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. But in the back of your mind you say, he likes me, he is just playing hard ball..ok ok and then you sit and examine the whole situation and say well my hormones is all over the place.let me take a step back and see the larger picture. then you start thinking do i really want him? do i really like him..How much of this is hormonal? Because there is not a man that I know of would turn down any cookies no matter the flavor..(lol)..So you know you like him but there sits on your shoulder those 6 little words.HE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU...an...

We all know that that we block our blessings when we set out standards to high. Ok so you are interested in a professional woman, Teacher, doctor, lawyer, nurse, etc. But that might not be what God has in store for you. Sometimes our standards are so high and we only want things this way and God says well i want it this way.. So you were on your way to the top, but somehow wrench got thrown in..The company moved or closed down, Now you got to begin again forcing you to have a different attitude about things. Yet your standards are still a bit too high, Dont get me wrong I wouldnt want anybody that's poverty stricken, because if he can't meet me where i am financially i need to leave him where he's at. But never say you will never date a ghetto girl or a hood man,..You never know. God put people in our lives for a reason. He may want to see you with Shaquita, because she may be your ticket to the top.. Or Cedric who just got a promotion to Manager and McDonalds.. One thing I...

Long Distance Relationships, Do they work?: Does Being Single Means You Are Available : "I am sitting here thinking about something like this. Being single doesn't necessarily means you are unattached, It just means that techinc..."

I am sitting here thinking about something like this. Being single doesn't necessarily means you are unattached, It just means that techincally you are not married. Ok which leaves this question, Can you pursue a man/woman is he/she is in a relationship with someone? or is this where we draw the line? This is where i beg the differ with you. As far as i am concern, You are single which leave the field wide open for new and better.. The question remains would I knowingly go after someone if I knew he is in a relationship. No I wouldnt. But if i didnt know but probably suspect that he is, I may, depending on if i am physically attracted to him and the type of person he appears to be, because 99.99% of the time they ususally are in a relationship. Some men are shy they may want you but they will never let you know, Some wait for you to approach them. When I want something, I go after it. Now at 50 I examine the situation where as when i was 23 if i wanted it i went for it and got ...

Long distance relationships, I think it only works when you are young. Like College kids, I was shocked when my son told me that he was in a long distance relationship, I thought she live in georgia like everybody we meet does. but she lives in NJ. he has visit her. I was excited for him, but do they work? I mean being so far from each other. I think because they are young, it can. But when you get my age, It dont work, because you wanting to be with him, he can't just up and come see you. He always have to make plans. What if( and we know If is a deep subject) she needs you for something, and you're not there, cant get there, well she will find somebody who can be there when she needs them. Oh sure she will keep you just in case.. But a woman wants a man close by. unless you got an understanding, then that's the only way that will work. Even with an understanding, I really dont feel like you are the only person that they see.. I think that when you call and say you are com...