"Just Being Me"

Be aware of yourself and know yourself. No matter how much you have learned and how much you know, if you don't know yourself you don't know anything. Indeed, if you don't know yourself you cannot know anything else..We get in that comfort zone and get lost there..Dare to be happy!!  Dare too confess it!! What wrong with doing something you want to do!!Why are we afraid, I get sick and tired of people doing or being what other people wants them to be. You know misery no longer loves company, now a days it insist on it.."You have to learn to follow your heart. You can’t let other people pressure you into being something that you’re not. If you want God’s favor in your life, you must be the person He made you to be, not the person your boss wants you to be, not even the person your parents or your husband wants you to be. You can’t let outside expectations keep you from following your own heart.ok maybe you’ve invested a lot of time, effort, money, emotion, and energy in

There is a difference between a Father and a Dad,.It is easier for a father to have children than for children to have a real father. I was fortunate to have 2 dads.. My dad (Jasper Frankin R.I.P. daddy) and (Roy Callahan Jr. R.I.P. Big daddy)..That was during the times when Parents was Parents.. Now we have Moms being fathers and Dads being mothers..I have seen some fathers had no hand in raising thier sons and daughters but would show up on graduation day..hmmmmm , I have a problem with that, but kids just glad they came..Have you notice that Mothers Day is more popular than Fathers Day? To be totally honest I forgot Sunday was Fathers Day, I realized it when I walked in a store today,  I was like Wow..ok I thought about some more and because my grandfather and both my fathers are deceased and I am divorced, I don't pay it much attention!! Not because my children Dad is not a good father to them, Its because they are grown and I don't have to tell them that fathers day is com

Happiness resides not in possessions and not in gold; the feeling of happiness dwells in the soul..Why are women chasing after happiness, Money and things will never make you happy, Blocking your blessing, Don't get me wrong material things are not to be despised, without them there can be no manifestation in the material world.. But while you out there looking for Mr right driving that Bmw, Mercedes, etc..He may just be driving a plain old ford 1999 f150,yea ya never know..but that depends on what you are looking for..Love or Things!! If you are looking for Things, then you are that Material Girl and you are on the right track meaningless relationship after relationship. I can understand you want your man/woman to at least have a job career wanting to be more and do more, But chasing cars and stars just don't look good on you. Surely if you don't have nothing, most women will not even look your way. Each of us will one day be judged  by our standard of life, Not by our sta

Here's to the Wives and Girlfriends, and Husbands and Boyfriends,May they never meet!! It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are, I really didn't use to entertain much on f/book but with family and friends. But as the years went by I got to know some people that I wouldn't have never met if it wasn't for f/book and twitter etc. Everything I do, Is limited. If I took time to entertain anybody that means I thought it thru. However that does not mean that is a good thing.  What I call Flirting can be misinterpret.. Flirting to me is Attention without intentions.. or is it? Everybody  has different reasons for being on f/book and Twitter.. Lets take the married folks..I really feel strongly about this, you shouldn't send pictures of no kind to a woman or man, you shouldn't even comment, no inbox on the side, What would you have to discuss that you can't comment on the wall. Temptation is a mutha, but even if that's something you want to do, Y

Looking out my kitchen window Bold Statement I think, but it keeps being true, Was it someone else? Was it not you yourself? Well, I can only be me!! The most common form of despair is not being who you are, We must be careful what we pretend to be, because you are what you pretend to be..Often time I see people changing who they are to fit in, Especially when it comes to relationships, Why can't you find a man who will except you for who you really are?. Why would you change yourself just to get what you call your idea man..That will last every bit of a short time, because sooner or later the real you will show..I can understand If we don't show who we are to associates, We have a face for each of our friends. Our action still shows who we really are, Its not that we are being different This is really you..You can't live with a person for 20 yrs and not know who he/she really is..You knew who they were when you married them.. Lets use Maria Shriver and Arnold Swartz...