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Long Distance Relationships, Do they work?: Does Being Single Means You Are Available

Long Distance Relationships, Do they work?: Does Being Single Means You Are Available : "I am sitting here thinking about something like this. Being single doesn't necessarily means you are unattached, It just means that techinc..."

Does Being Single Means You Are Available

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I am sitting here thinking about something like this. Being single doesn't necessarily means you are unattached, It just means that techincally you are not married. Ok which leaves this question, Can you pursue a man/woman is he/she is in a relationship with someone? or is this where we draw the line? This is where i beg the differ with you. As far as i am concern, You are single which leave the field wide open for new and better.. The question remains would I knowingly go after someone if I knew he is in a relationship. No I wouldnt. But if i didnt know but probably suspect that he is, I may, depending on if i am physically attracted to him and the type of person he appears to be, because 99.99% of the time they ususally are in a relationship. Some men are shy they may want you but they will never let you know, Some wait for you to approach them. When I want something, I go after it. Now at 50 I examine the situation where as when i was 23 if i wanted it i went for it and got

Relationships from afar...

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Long distance relationships, I think it only works when you are young. Like College kids, I was shocked when my son told me that he was in a long distance relationship, I thought she live in georgia like everybody we meet does. but she lives in NJ. he has visit her. I was excited for him, but do they work? I mean being so far from each other. I think because they are young, it can. But when you get my age, It dont work, because you wanting to be with him, he can't just up and come see you. He always have to make plans. What if( and we know If is a deep subject) she needs you for something, and you're not there, cant get there, well she will find somebody who can be there when she needs them. Oh sure she will keep you just in case.. But a woman wants a man close by. unless you got an understanding, then that's the only way that will work. Even with an understanding, I really dont feel like you are the only person that they see.. I think that when you call and say you are com