Does Being Single Means You Are Available

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I am sitting here thinking about something like this. Being single doesn't necessarily means you are unattached, It just means that techincally you are not married. Ok which leaves this question, Can you pursue a man/woman is he/she is in a relationship with someone? or is this where we draw the line? This is where i beg the differ with you. As far as i am concern, You are single which leave the field wide open for new and better.. The question remains would I knowingly go after someone if I knew he is in a relationship. No I wouldnt. But if i didnt know but probably suspect that he is, I may, depending on if i am physically attracted to him and the type of person he appears to be, because 99.99% of the time they ususally are in a relationship. Some men are shy they may want you but they will never let you know, Some wait for you to approach them. When I want something, I go after it. Now at 50 I examine the situation where as when i was 23 if i wanted it i went for it and got it, Because back then i thought i was the baddest thing walking. but you really have to be careful what you are asking for. What appealed to me then is not the same now. My taste are totally different. But if I like you and I told you I like you, It means that I am really into you and wouldnt mind spending time with you. Do I want a relationship? Not really, Do I want a cuddie buddie? for now, it may turn into a relationship one day who knows. Do i know if i am being rejected? Is being rejected the same thing as not responding to you at all? and hoping it just go away. I really do feel that when a man/woman get a certain age, they should be able to tell a person what they want and don't want. It's not hard to say, Hey I am a relationship and i like where i am, etc. Bottom line you are still in that rejection status..But lets keep it at a 100.. If you like somebody and want to be with them, you will make a way to make that happen, I know a lot of men/ women pretend to be happy and they hang in there hoping to fall in love with them or just for GP(general principle). Being happy is not a crime..loving someone and being in love is totally two different things.. Real talk..I want to be In love with a person. not just love them it's never enough.. I can love you till the cows come home but you just dont do it for me..

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