"Just Being Me"

It seems like people are all the time making themselves themselves, but they don't really know it.  You can only have true vision when you look behind.  A person can slide so fast into being something they never really intended..As far as inner transformation is concerned, there is nothing you can do about it. You cannot transform yourself, and you certainly cannot transform your partner or anybody else. All you can do is create a space for transformation to happen, for grace and love to enter..Nobody can give us what we really already are. Wouldn’t it be terrible if somebody could give you what you really are? cause if they could give it to you, they could mos def take it away. Which brings me back to another question. Do we change? I say No, We may change the way we do things. But WE don't change..It's vital to remember who you really are. It's very important. It isn't a good idea to rely on other people to do it for you, you see. They always get it wrong, becaus