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He's Just Not That Into You..Rejection At It's Best..

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Let me Paint a Picture for you, You like this guy and you want nothing more than to get with him, You have told him on numerous ocassions and you get no respond. HE'S JUST NOT THAT  INTO YOU. Every once in a while you flirt with a touch and he respond slightly because he has that reputation of being a Nice guy. So you figure he is in a relationship, but you dont want a relationship, you just want a cuddie buddie..No respond..HE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. But in the back of your mind you say, he likes me, he is just playing hard ball..ok ok and then you sit and examine the whole situation and say well my hormones is all over the place.let me take a step back and see the larger picture. then you start thinking do i really want him? do i really like him..How much of this is hormonal? Because there is not a man that I know of would turn down any cookies no matter the flavor..(lol)..So you know you like him but there sits on your shoulder those 6 little words.HE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU...an

When Standards Are too High

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We all know that that we block our blessings when we set out standards to high. Ok so you are interested in a professional woman, Teacher, doctor, lawyer, nurse, etc. But that might not be what God has in store for you. Sometimes our standards are so high and we only want things this way and God says well i want it this way.. So you were on your way to the top, but somehow wrench got thrown in..The company moved or closed down, Now you got to begin again forcing you to have a different attitude about things. Yet your standards are still a bit too high, Dont get me wrong I wouldnt want anybody that's poverty stricken, because if he can't meet me where i am financially i need to leave him where he's at. But never say you will never date a ghetto girl or a hood man,..You never know. God put people in our lives for a reason. He may want to see you with Shaquita, because she may be your ticket to the top.. Or Cedric who just got a promotion to Manager and McDonalds.. One thing I