"Just Being Me"

The word Compete sounds so much like a game. What's the name of this game? and what does the winner really gets? Why would I compete to hold on to a man? I don't want to compete I don't suppose to be in the game. It almost feel like you are chasing something.  Its a lot of competition out there and there will always be. It always happen when you get married or in a relationship that the women and men be on the prowl. Lets be honest, men  and women are more interesting when he/she is married or in a relationship.I played the game. Competition doesn't create character, it exposes it.Imagine a man  really in love: he won't waste time speculating whether other women equally merit his affection. I think men like it when women push up on them. even the flirting can get out of hand. its the gentle art of making a man feel pleased with himself,  If women are doing what they suppose to do, making thier spouses happy I see no reason why it should be a competition with the o