"Just Being Me"

Here's to the Wives and Girlfriends, and Husbands and Boyfriends,May they never meet!! It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are, I really didn't use to entertain much on f/book but with family and friends. But as the years went by I got to know some people that I wouldn't have never met if it wasn't for f/book and twitter etc. Everything I do, Is limited. If I took time to entertain anybody that means I thought it thru. However that does not mean that is a good thing.  What I call Flirting can be misinterpret.. Flirting to me is Attention without intentions.. or is it? Everybody  has different reasons for being on f/book and Twitter.. Lets take the married folks..I really feel strongly about this, you shouldn't send pictures of no kind to a woman or man, you shouldn't even comment, no inbox on the side, What would you have to discuss that you can't comment on the wall. Temptation is a mutha, but even if that's something you want to do, Y...

Looking out my kitchen window Bold Statement I think, but it keeps being true, Was it someone else? Was it not you yourself? Well, I can only be me!! The most common form of despair is not being who you are, We must be careful what we pretend to be, because you are what you pretend to be..Often time I see people changing who they are to fit in, Especially when it comes to relationships, Why can't you find a man who will except you for who you really are?. Why would you change yourself just to get what you call your idea man..That will last every bit of a short time, because sooner or later the real you will show..I can understand If we don't show who we are to associates, We have a face for each of our friends. Our action still shows who we really are, Its not that we are being different This is really you..You can't live with a person for 20 yrs and not know who he/she really is..You knew who they were when you married them.. Lets use Maria Shriver and Arnold Swartz....

It is the dream afraid of waking that never takes the chance. It is the one who won't be taken who cannot seem to give. And the soul afraid of dying that never learns to live.(Bette Midler The Rose lyrics). This is one of the most profound quotes there is:  Sad and empowering.. It is really saying to me that we only have one life and we need to live it Now..Tomorrow is not promise to us. We live in fear most of the time, and we settle. The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for.We will fall in love and we will get hurt, but that's part of living, some people are not capable of love, but we learn that the hard way. but we must continue living. Some people come into our lives, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never the same..We must not fear making the most of our lives.How many times have we gotten our hearts broken? We can't just close our hearts out of fear, We need to open our hearts to receive love and affection from...

Sex raises some pretty good questions..I  just  think we are afraid of each other when it comes to sex, because we read so much about sex, we talk so openly about sex, we see movies and we read books; but when we are face to face with somebody, we forget our individual patterns; that we are unique. So we try to repeat other folks patterns, according to what we seen and what we heard. So most of us are very frustrated, because we don’t accept our individuality as far as sex is concerned..Sex is great, addictive, pleasureful and blurs the mind to where its hard to make objective decisions..The intimacy in sex is never only physical. In a sexual relationship we may discover who we are in ways otherwise unavailable to us..When you get to be 50 and over. You know exactly what it is you want and what it will take to please you. I thought that I would be satisfied with just having sex, But really I want to be in love too..Not that I would go looking for it..You do not...

You see with your eyes. This means you can be misled by charm, by outward appearance by surface pretences. I do not see with my eyes. I see good and I see evil. Nothing else..I have dated some very attractive men in my day, But they wasnt worth a damn riding or walking!!..A friend of mine said Karen I don't know why you left him, he is too cute and fine..I said WTH..you can have him, because he is just not worth it. Give me a man that loves me, who wants me, who are sensitive to my needs as well as his. I am not looking for that outward appearance.,,Would I take Waka flaka if he said he loves me? hmmmmm you know God made somebody for everybody..Never say never ladies and gents..lol lol,,. Anywho..It is only when the mind and character slumber that the dress can be seen...Let us be grateful to the mirror for revealing to us our appearance only...Many men has fallen in love with a girl in a light so dim he would not have chosen a suit by it.. I am sure we all have made some mucked up...

I think most women at 50 and over would be in that class of Fu x kable which means wanting and having the best sex of your life. We all fall in that rut sometime where we don't want sex after having kids and being that typical housewife. we don't care how we look or who even looks at us.which would be "Duckable" at that time we need some type of stimulation. A man can't make this about him, I bring home the bacon I need my needs satisfied, so you go thru the motions, feels like a job. He don't care what's on your mind really..Just do your job and keep me happy.Have I been in either category? I was fuxkable in my 20's to my late 30's and during the times I was married and was a house wife, I was "duckable" I don't think I wanted me at the time!! Now that I am Single and over 50 and have reach the peak of my life I am "Fu x kable" more now than I was in my 20"s. Women at 50 have the same thing on thier minds as men (sex)....