Appearances..How Important Is It?

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You see with your eyes. This means you can be misled by charm, by outward appearance by surface pretences. I do not see with my eyes. I see good and I see evil. Nothing else..I have dated some very attractive men in my day, But they wasnt worth a damn riding or walking!!..A friend of mine said Karen I don't know why you left him, he is too cute and fine..I said WTH..you can have him, because he is just not worth it. Give me a man that loves me, who wants me, who are sensitive to my needs as well as his. I am not looking for that outward appearance.,,Would I take Waka flaka if he said he loves me? hmmmmm you know God made somebody for everybody..Never say never ladies and gents..lol lol,,. Anywho..It is only when the mind and character slumber that the dress can be seen...Let us be grateful to the mirror for revealing to us our appearance only...Many men has fallen in love with a girl in a light so dim he would not have chosen a suit by it.. I am sure we all have made some mucked up choices in our lives.. Why would you base a relationship on looks. Where do that get you? really? We should look to the mind, and not to the outward appearance. Appearances often are deceiving you know, One of my coworkers told me she don't date dark skined men. I said what?  and what if he's the one who could rock your world, she said she will never know.. Wow..how we miss our blessings.I think that I am a fairly attractive smart women, no I am not a red bone I am not 25 anymore I am 51 and I think I look damn good for 51 I just don't have beauty I have beauty and brain and if you can't see that, that means you just can't see..You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear...

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