Love Is The answer But, While You Are Waiting For The Answer...

Sex raises some pretty good questions..I  just  think we are afraid of each other when it comes to sex, because we read so much about sex, we talk so openly about sex, we see movies and we read books; but when we are face to face with somebody, we forget our individual patterns; that we are unique. So we try to repeat other folks patterns, according to what we seen and what we heard. So most of us are very frustrated, because we don’t accept our individuality as far as sex is concerned..Sex is great, addictive, pleasureful and blurs the mind to where its hard to make objective decisions..The intimacy in sex is never only physical. In a sexual relationship we may discover who we are in ways otherwise unavailable to us..When you get to be 50 and over. You know exactly what it is you want and what it will take to please you. I thought that I would be satisfied with just having sex, But really I want to be in love too..Not that I would go looking for it..You do not find love; you decide to love. Love does not happen to you; it happens in you. The risk of love is declaring that you have decided to love. Your heart is open and you are exposed, hoping only for mercy from your beloved..I found out that some people are just not capable of love. Some people come in our lives for different reasons. each one I have learned from them..We always say, What the hell was I thinking?..but somewhere there were lessons, hard lesson.and if we didnt learn anything from it, it will repeat itself..Everyone recognizes to some extent the type that each is draw to and they intuitively feel each other mentally and physically.That would be the only way I give any man a second thought..very few have cross my path. and when they do, It always be that they are out of reach,.We don't attract what we want, we attract what we are..After a few bad relationships, it's so easy to shut down, give up, and stop believing that the right person is out there for us. Our hearts yearn to fall in love, but our minds insist it's not possible, and we enter into a tug-of-war with ourselves. It's as if one part of us is screaming, "Yep, I deserve a great relationship!" while another part insists, "I'll never find him or her." When our beliefs contradict our desires, we experience an inner conflict that not only paralyzes us, but can actually prevent us from recognizing the possibilities for love that exist all around us...