"Just Being Me"

The one you love and the one who loves you are never, ever the same person..Why is that? It always happens that way. You are in a relationshsip and you don't love them, you love the other person..About all you can do in life is be who you are. Some people will love you for you. Most will love you for what you can do for them, and some won't like you at all. been there and done that..I want you to always make decisions according to your heart, where there is the purest truth. I don't mutter the words "I love you" if I dont really love you. but The hardest thing to do is watch someone you loves, love someone else...but you notice life still goes on. Life brings you exactly what you need .you never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back. A friend of mine, almost always ends the conversation with I love you. But I gave you more than enough chances to say that as often as possible when we were together. now that we are apart. you throwing it around like its no...

How Indeed?..Our visions are, in many ways, our most vital assets. They may frustrate and tantalise us when we realise that we are unlikely ever to turn them into a reality; but they can comfort us enormously if we cling to them in times of adversity.But You know, I have come to believe that some people are as happy as they make up thier minds to be. Everything is always cut and dry. and we know that is not the way life is. I have dreams, I never stop dreaming.There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure. Without leaps of imagination, or dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning. I have witnessed some folks who just stop dreaming, the older they get they just adopted this "live and let live" No need to dream or want more.It's sad...And for God's sake, never get into the petty habit of measuring your self-worth against other people's net-worth. Every second you spend thinki...

Is being Single the American Way? We have a lot of single woman walking around that are happy just the way things are. Being Single has it's down side too.. Single women with homes of their own knows that somethings takes a man to do. but we kind of feel our way through it.Only by choice In the times we are living in these days.either the man wants you to take care of them, or he has set his standards so high you just don't want to be bothered with them.Some get offended when we say there is no good men left. and they would say you are looking in the wrong place. I am prepared to be single, I am not going out there competing for what?..  I know I can come off a bit stubborn, but that's nothing that can't be fixed if need be.It's very rare that one would capture my attention, If you do you would be among the 6 men I called my men which is really fantasy men. I will start in no particular order: Jamie Foxx, Denzel Washington, Bill Clinton, Barack Obama, Ludacris, Mich...

Let me start by saying, Going to Church don't make you a Christian, Like standing in a garage don't make you a car. I know i will be stepping on a few toes. Criticism like rain should be gentle enough to nourish a man growth without destroying his roots. But I received an email about a week ago from this guy that I will call "Rhalpie". He wanted to thank me for the b/day wish that I always end with a smoochies for the men.because that's who i am that's what I do. Judging from his comments and post he is a Christian Man that's what one would assume. but in my heart of hearts a man will be a man. He have a girlfriend that he raved about. He said thank you for all the inspirational things you post and things that make me laugh..I responded and said thank you I am glad i am entertaining somebody(big mistake). So the email kept going for hours. Because i had decided to entertain this one because really he was saying all the things that a woman needs to hear so...

I think  some women know what they want, But between the ages of  25-35 I don't really think they know what they want. they might have an idea, but that don't cut it in the times we are living in.When you get between 35-45 you begin to think really hard about what you want and where you want to go.because by this time you have been there and done some crazy things. You been in maybe more than enough fail relationships and maybe a few failed marriages, Most are single mothers by then. But when you get to be 50 like myself. You know exactly what you want and contemplating on how we are going to get it. Because we have played all the games that can be played,  So you can't put too much over on us that we haven't already done.But that don't stop a man from trying. Because I can't tell these days who lie the most, Women or Men. Men don't lie like women,  Something happen along the way, Really they get caught, Women has mastered that trade. Men have never known wh...