Hiding Behind Religion...."Bible Christians"..taking it out a whole new door

Let me start by saying, Going to Church don't make you a Christian, Like standing in a garage don't make you a car. I know i will be stepping on a few toes. Criticism like rain should be gentle enough to nourish a man growth without destroying his roots. But I received an email about a week ago from this guy that I will call "Rhalpie". He wanted to thank me for the b/day wish that I always end with a smoochies for the men.because that's who i am that's what I do. Judging from his comments and post he is a Christian Man that's what one would assume. but in my heart of hearts a man will be a man. He have a girlfriend that he raved about. He said thank you for all the inspirational things you post and things that make me laugh..I responded and said thank you I am glad i am entertaining somebody(big mistake). So the email kept going for hours. Because i had decided to entertain this one because really he was saying all the things that a woman needs to hear sometimes. Well he had a personal question for me, and I said ask me anything not knowing that it would get explicit..not going in to what he said, I said Wow all the characteristics in a man I like. and he said well he wasn't satisfied with the way his sex life is going. I said talk to her yall need to work that out..blah blah.. Really he didn't want a good girl, he wanted a hood girl. But I am 50 yrs old I been a hood girl and a good girl.Now I am a hood hood good girl..but it was nothing I can do for him He said I like older women, I always have, still i was encouraging him to work things out because he loved her so much. To make a long story short, He never deleted the messages. So old guh and I will call her SusieQ. went into his email and email me..In the subject box was cyberwhoring, I went WTH..but i refuse to go there. She said i read all the messages and if you knew he was in a relationship why did you keep talking to him? She had a point. But still I wasn't rattled. all i said to her was.HE IS YOUR MAN, NOT MINE. get that together. He email me and said ignore all of that, she got into my email..I told him you did that intentional. You wanted her to see that. I said a whole lot more, But I didn't delete him. I figured He needs to delete me. but he wouldn't. So SusieQ decided that she would send my 18 yr old Son a message saying I am trying to take her man, little did she know my children mentality is the same as mine I raised them. He texted me and said some chic said you was trying to take her man, and at the end of the message he put rotf..meaning rolling on the floor. He said Ma, i told her if you wanted him, you could get him, and he is yo man don't you need to be talking to him. Still  I didn't indulge in that. but i still didn't delete him. He deleted his page and so did she or got new identities. One thing I can say about SusieQ that was on the money, the last thing she said was Find your own man in Atlanta..and i am telling you all of that to say this, always keep it at 100. Don't use Christianity as a tool you can hide behind for your convenience. because it is hard as hell to try and fool me with the holier than thou. and it gets worse and worse with the fakeness. Be careful what you pretend to be..because you are what you pretend to be.but what really has pissed me off the most. Is that women never blames the man. She knew who he was and what he wanted befo she hooked up with him, people don't change. being in a relationship don't mean much to me because you are still single.It don't mean I will try and take what you got. I want my own man, not anybody Else's scrap metal."Rhalpie" is still a nice guy,he needs to stop settling he deserve the best..and start by repositioning himself. "Always telling the truth is no doubt better than always lying, although equally pathological. Some people are mere "Bible Christians" where all the Christianity remains in the Bible and none of it gets into them..but ponder this: The most interesting part of Judgment will be when the Lord says, "So much for the harm you did to defy me. Now let us examine the harm you did to glorify me.... ..