Do Women Know What They Want? Do Men? Hell No..REAL TALK

I think  some women know what they want, But between the ages of  25-35 I don't really think they know what they want. they might have an idea, but that don't cut it in the times we are living in.When you get between 35-45 you begin to think really hard about what you want and where you want to go.because by this time you have been there and done some crazy things. You been in maybe more than enough fail relationships and maybe a few failed marriages, Most are single mothers by then. But when you get to be 50 like myself. You know exactly what you want and contemplating on how we are going to get it. Because we have played all the games that can be played,  So you can't put too much over on us that we haven't already done.But that don't stop a man from trying. Because I can't tell these days who lie the most, Women or Men. Men don't lie like women,  Something happen along the way, Really they get caught, Women has mastered that trade. Men have never known what they wanted not since the beginning of time, But they taught us women well. Oh, I want a housewife, stay at home, No I want a career woman, No i changed my mind I don't want to work and bring home the bacon i want to stay home and watch the kids( more like the kids watching themselves) Oh we need a nanny..(no you want the nanny). No no I know what i want this year, I want a young hood chick, she will put out more and she won;t have a headache,,(hmmmm where do they do that at?) all women go thru the pms stage..Duh..I think now that I am older I want  somebody my own age because  she is more mature she will cook and the house will be clean..Lawd.. Can you make  up yo mind, because the bottom line is You wont be able to get it up later on because of all the meds you will be taking weather it's for high blood pressure or something that will effect your libido. But oh you are what? 60 hmmm still trying to say you know what you want?..Please...I guess you want to be the president now since we made History..right right. Well I am not going to lie, at one point I didn't know what i wanted or who I wanted to be, I had my alter ego going on..(pretending) I thought I was a bad Bytch.. My Boobs got me what i wanted. I didn't have to think about it. They was the main attraction, I didn't care if I was not interested in him, all that matters was he was interested in me. till i got married and that's when reality set in..Oh shout out to all the housewives(highly overrated). I got tired of hearing: I wear the pants, this is my house..That's when I got up off my azz and went to work..5 yrs was long enough the boys was in kindergarden and pre k...I was good..Men do me a favor, Lose the back in the day syndrome, It don't work in this century.  I want a Sensitive Compassionate man..One who can be that and still be the man.who will put me in my place and let me know i am wrong. I don't need a man that won't say nothing. If i hurt your feelings don't tell me a year later. because you been carry these bad feeling around with you which is effecting our relationship only because you too stupid to say something..Oh but you know everything. and if you are not happy in the relationship be the man that ya daddy raised you and say, this is not working, I am not happy..Don't worry about the kids..they grow up and out..half of the probably glad you are gone..but don't wait 20 yrs to say it wasting time when i could have been doing something else.Because you are pretending, be real careful what you are pretending to be, because you are what you are pretending to be..When I turned 40, My hormones was changing. I know longer wanted to date or look at an African American Man.and i didn't for 8 yrs..Things began to change..I didn't want to think that every black male was a insensitive non compassionate Jerk..But they left me no choice. I wasn't bitter I was just mad as hell My life in the past was all my fault. I did blame My ex  husband for a long time..But I should have gotten out of that relationship long before i got some sense.I kept pretending, I stayed because people was saying that my marriage is doomed to fail..Yea i knew that, but i didn't need nobody telling me. I was rebound..I took this man away from his wife and family, I am not proud of that, but I was 23 no sense at all..Now, I can only say that..I have changed. I know what I wanted. But Men still don't. They want you to pursue them, No no wait she is too aggressive(no, I just know what i want) You can't make up your mind if you want old school or new school. But please don't have us running around trying to figure what you want.Some of yall standards are way to high i don't think you'll ever find a soul to match it.What you need to do is  really figure out what you want before father time take you down that lonely road. We women are simple yall make it complicated for yourself. And women if you can't hold on to your man....YOU DON'T NEED HIM...trust issues..YOU DON'T NEED HIM...but I will say this, You knew the kind of man he was when you hook up with him,..Oh just ignore the signs why don't you..because no amount of sizzle will make a bad steak good..you feel me.i can't speak for the rest of the women..But I want love, stability, sensitive  financially stable.Ladies is he can't meet you where you are, Leave him where he's at. A man who is not afraid to Live. if I say I Love you, Believe that. Men need to get a clue. They need to figure out what is they want. 99.99% of the successful men think they know what they want, but the bottom line they don't have a clue..I won't compete for your love or attention. I am better than that..Men? It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true.I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself.I want to know if you can live with failure yours and mine and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon..I don't want to own you. Don't want to control you. I just want to be good to you...Real Talk