Do You Not know I Am A Single Woman? When I Think, I Must Speak..

Is being Single the American Way? We have a lot of single woman walking around that are happy just the way things are. Being Single has it's down side too.. Single women with homes of their own knows that somethings takes a man to do. but we kind of feel our way through it.Only by choice In the times we are living in these days.either the man wants you to take care of them, or he has set his standards so high you just don't want to be bothered with them.Some get offended when we say there is no good men left. and they would say you are looking in the wrong place. I am prepared to be single, I am not going out there competing for what?..  I know I can come off a bit stubborn, but that's nothing that can't be fixed if need be.It's very rare that one would capture my attention, If you do you would be among the 6 men I called my men which is really fantasy men. I will start in no particular order: Jamie Foxx, Denzel Washington, Bill Clinton, Barack Obama, Ludacris, Michael Baisden.What are the chances I will nail anyone of them..probably the same chances I have of winning the lottery. but the same 6 never changes nor do I add to them. Lets take Foxx..Now all I would want from him is 2hr and 7 mins that would be all we could stand, yes the physical attraction is there, but we wouldn't agree on anything..lol Denzel, I can see me with him the rest of my life. He just that type of guy, the physical attraction he never sees to amaze me. Bill Clinton,.Well I can see the physical attraction but every few years we hook up just for fun. Obama he the type of guy  i just want to look at..get inside his intelligent head..every 4 years/ Ludacris would be the guy you meet when pms has kicked in you are horny and you saw him on an elevator or a stairwell just to make out.. you know hood love..Michael, well you know..He would be the guy that's hard to read, you really don't know what he wants..because he has this over protective wall up which makes him come off cold as hell, and ignoring you is highly. so why would one be attracted to such eye candy..We call them challenges.Every woman loves a challenge.. These men does different things to me. so we Carbon Copy them..the best we can just to find out that ain't nothing like the real thing baby..lol So I put my six men high on the shelf of fantasy eye candy.I don't bother them..and they know nothing of me..which is the best man you can have these days..Fantasy Men.. All women want that special Man my 6 fantasy men wrapped up into one Real Man..He's just not out there. So being single just looks good on me. Finding the right guy is hard. What ever happen to i like you, you like me, we want to be together, wuts up with the mystery..the fear? falling in love? Fear usually keeps us from doing what we want to do..Fear is just a darkroom where negatives develop..I use to fear falling in love with the wrong man...but I don't fear that anymore because a man snatches the first kiss, pleads for the second, demands the third, takes the fourth, accepts the fifth - and endures all the rest.....real talk..