"Just Being Me"

Is being Single the American Way? We have a lot of single woman walking around that are happy just the way things are. Being Single has it's down side too.. Single women with homes of their own knows that somethings takes a man to do. but we kind of feel our way through it.Only by choice In the times we are living in these days.either the man wants you to take care of them, or he has set his standards so high you just don't want to be bothered with them.Some get offended when we say there is no good men left. and they would say you are looking in the wrong place. I am prepared to be single, I am not going out there competing for what?..  I know I can come off a bit stubborn, but that's nothing that can't be fixed if need be.It's very rare that one would capture my attention, If you do you would be among the 6 men I called my men which is really fantasy men. I will start in no particular order: Jamie Foxx, Denzel Washington, Bill Clinton, Barack Obama, Ludacris, Mich...

Let me start by saying, Going to Church don't make you a Christian, Like standing in a garage don't make you a car. I know i will be stepping on a few toes. Criticism like rain should be gentle enough to nourish a man growth without destroying his roots. But I received an email about a week ago from this guy that I will call "Rhalpie". He wanted to thank me for the b/day wish that I always end with a smoochies for the men.because that's who i am that's what I do. Judging from his comments and post he is a Christian Man that's what one would assume. but in my heart of hearts a man will be a man. He have a girlfriend that he raved about. He said thank you for all the inspirational things you post and things that make me laugh..I responded and said thank you I am glad i am entertaining somebody(big mistake). So the email kept going for hours. Because i had decided to entertain this one because really he was saying all the things that a woman needs to hear so...

I think  some women know what they want, But between the ages of  25-35 I don't really think they know what they want. they might have an idea, but that don't cut it in the times we are living in.When you get between 35-45 you begin to think really hard about what you want and where you want to go.because by this time you have been there and done some crazy things. You been in maybe more than enough fail relationships and maybe a few failed marriages, Most are single mothers by then. But when you get to be 50 like myself. You know exactly what you want and contemplating on how we are going to get it. Because we have played all the games that can be played,  So you can't put too much over on us that we haven't already done.But that don't stop a man from trying. Because I can't tell these days who lie the most, Women or Men. Men don't lie like women,  Something happen along the way, Really they get caught, Women has mastered that trade. Men have never known wh...

Just Something I ran across while researching.This one by Ralph Waldo Emerson just about sums up what I really had in mind: I appeal from your customs. I must be myself. I cannot break myself any longer for you, or you. If you can love me for what I am, we shall be the happier. If you cannot, I will still seek to deserve that you should. I will not hide my tastes or aversions. I will so trust that what is deep is holy, that I will do strongly before the sun and moon whatever inly rejoices me, and the heart appoints. If you are noble, I will love you; if you are not, I will not hurt you and myself by hypocritical attentions. If you are true, but not in the same truth with me, cleave to your companions; I will seek my own,,...Wow Deep..But you know Being a single 50 yr old woman and just listening and looking at other people relationships, Every one of them have their own definition of what happiness is. Because I had labeled it as Pretending to be happy.I guess knowing what you want and...