"Just Being Me"

There is a difference between a Father and a Dad,.It is easier for a father to have children than for children to have a real father. I was fortunate to have 2 dads.. My dad (Jasper Frankin R.I.P. daddy) and (Roy Callahan Jr. R.I.P. Big daddy)..That was during the times when Parents was Parents.. Now we have Moms being fathers and Dads being mothers..I have seen some fathers had no hand in raising thier sons and daughters but would show up on graduation day..hmmmmm , I have a problem with that, but kids just glad they came..Have you notice that Mothers Day is more popular than Fathers Day? To be totally honest I forgot Sunday was Fathers Day, I realized it when I walked in a store today,  I was like Wow..ok I thought about some more and because my grandfather and both my fathers are deceased and I am divorced, I don't pay it much attention!! Not because my children Dad is not a good father to them, Its because they are grown and I don't have to tell them that fathers day is com...

Happiness resides not in possessions and not in gold; the feeling of happiness dwells in the soul..Why are women chasing after happiness, Money and things will never make you happy, Blocking your blessing, Don't get me wrong material things are not to be despised, without them there can be no manifestation in the material world.. But while you out there looking for Mr right driving that Bmw, Mercedes, etc..He may just be driving a plain old ford 1999 f150,yea ya never know..but that depends on what you are looking for..Love or Things!! If you are looking for Things, then you are that Material Girl and you are on the right track meaningless relationship after relationship. I can understand you want your man/woman to at least have a job career wanting to be more and do more, But chasing cars and stars just don't look good on you. Surely if you don't have nothing, most women will not even look your way. Each of us will one day be judged  by our standard of life, Not by our s...

Here's to the Wives and Girlfriends, and Husbands and Boyfriends,May they never meet!! It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are, I really didn't use to entertain much on f/book but with family and friends. But as the years went by I got to know some people that I wouldn't have never met if it wasn't for f/book and twitter etc. Everything I do, Is limited. If I took time to entertain anybody that means I thought it thru. However that does not mean that is a good thing.  What I call Flirting can be misinterpret.. Flirting to me is Attention without intentions.. or is it? Everybody  has different reasons for being on f/book and Twitter.. Lets take the married folks..I really feel strongly about this, you shouldn't send pictures of no kind to a woman or man, you shouldn't even comment, no inbox on the side, What would you have to discuss that you can't comment on the wall. Temptation is a mutha, but even if that's something you want to do, Y...

Looking out my kitchen window Bold Statement I think, but it keeps being true, Was it someone else? Was it not you yourself? Well, I can only be me!! The most common form of despair is not being who you are, We must be careful what we pretend to be, because you are what you pretend to be..Often time I see people changing who they are to fit in, Especially when it comes to relationships, Why can't you find a man who will except you for who you really are?. Why would you change yourself just to get what you call your idea man..That will last every bit of a short time, because sooner or later the real you will show..I can understand If we don't show who we are to associates, We have a face for each of our friends. Our action still shows who we really are, Its not that we are being different This is really you..You can't live with a person for 20 yrs and not know who he/she really is..You knew who they were when you married them.. Lets use Maria Shriver and Arnold Swartz....

It is the dream afraid of waking that never takes the chance. It is the one who won't be taken who cannot seem to give. And the soul afraid of dying that never learns to live.(Bette Midler The Rose lyrics). This is one of the most profound quotes there is:  Sad and empowering.. It is really saying to me that we only have one life and we need to live it Now..Tomorrow is not promise to us. We live in fear most of the time, and we settle. The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for.We will fall in love and we will get hurt, but that's part of living, some people are not capable of love, but we learn that the hard way. but we must continue living. Some people come into our lives, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never the same..We must not fear making the most of our lives.How many times have we gotten our hearts broken? We can't just close our hearts out of fear, We need to open our hearts to receive love and affection from...

Sex raises some pretty good questions..I  just  think we are afraid of each other when it comes to sex, because we read so much about sex, we talk so openly about sex, we see movies and we read books; but when we are face to face with somebody, we forget our individual patterns; that we are unique. So we try to repeat other folks patterns, according to what we seen and what we heard. So most of us are very frustrated, because we don’t accept our individuality as far as sex is concerned..Sex is great, addictive, pleasureful and blurs the mind to where its hard to make objective decisions..The intimacy in sex is never only physical. In a sexual relationship we may discover who we are in ways otherwise unavailable to us..When you get to be 50 and over. You know exactly what it is you want and what it will take to please you. I thought that I would be satisfied with just having sex, But really I want to be in love too..Not that I would go looking for it..You do not...