"Why Is It So Hard For People To Be Honest"?

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You know some people live half their lives pretending, pretending they are happy, pretending to be something they are not..pretending to like you, but really dont't. pretending to be your friend.. I mean really why do we have to do all of that? What is wrong about being honest? I know It must require bravery to be honest all the time..but how about 99.99% Friends are honest with each other. Even if the truth hurts..We need to be real careful what we pretend to be, because we are what we pretending to be.or Perhaps it's impossible to wear an identity without becoming what you pretend to be..Honest is how I want to look. The truth doesn't glitter and shine..We are, largely, who we remember ourselves to be. That's why habits are so hard to break. If we know ourselves to be liars, we expect not to tell the truth. If we think of ourselves as honest, we try harder..“I often feel that too many people lived their lives acting and pretending,wearing masks and losing themselves in the process..Please my peeps, be the person you have never had the courage to be. Gradually, you will discover that you are that person, but until you can see this clearly, I guess you will keep pretending and inventing:

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