Wedding Bells for the Ex..Gotta love it...

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kierstin and granpapa

 This is one of those days that Silence is a good thing... But I got to talk about it.. My daughter email me at work,(we both work in the same place) and said her father was getting married again. This is his 4th marriage. One before me and two after. I just hope this is it for him, that he finally found somebody that is right for him and thats his equal.I am so shock at the moment, I knew he was dating seriously, but I thought maybe I will find my mate before he do, crazy huh? Well...you know.. Am I jealous? No Honestly I am very happy for him, We been divorced for maybe 12 yrs I had a good run while we were together, learned alot, I knew we were not going to grow old together. I think every person knows if you will be with that person for the rest of your life...You know,,you may never want to admit it and try to hold on for dear life, but some things we must let go of.. He told me he will keep trying till he get it right, He just may have gotten it right. he will be 60 yrs old this year..It is time..I don't think we ever saw eye to eye on anything, He say black, I say white, But we have 3 wonderful children and I think that I am truely blessed..Relationships are hard enough without all the drama that comes along.  No!! I  will not be running out looking for my mate, That's in God hand and in his timing. I am good, My kids are ok with his decision,...A good marriage is like a casserole, only those responsible for it really know what goes in it..

Comments

  1. G. RichardsonMarch 9, 2011 at 11:04 PM

    Girl u r too much ... a good marriage is like a casserole! Pray for that 4th wife! LOL.

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  2. TroubleKMarch 10, 2011 at 6:03 AM

    lawd...gail..lol lol I am praying for all parties involve

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