"Just Being Me"

Have you ever tried to squeeze blood from a stone? It is just not possible.Negativity and criticism may help to develop a thicker skin, but pressed too hard, the skin become stone. Negativity is poison and in all things we reap what we sow. when you are negative without tempering such actions or attitudes with kindness, you create an environment ripe for the breeding of resentment and animosity, hurt feelings are the natural outcome. Some people are so miserable that they want everybody to feel as they do.If you haven't sown anything good. you reap nothing good.You have to sow before you can reap. You have to give before you can get.. Watch how you treat people.Being Hurt and angry doesn't give you the right to get revenge, Vengeance is mine said the Lord..Half of us don't know anything about Our God, You go to Church a few Sundays and you may mutter a nice little prayer, Who I call "Bible Christian" Where all the Christianity stays in the bible and none of it get...

How many of us has Dodged a few bullets in our lifetime? Men and Women for that matter. Men would say: I am glad I did not hook up with that crazy girl, or women would say: Wow I am glad I didn't marry that idiot..Although some bullets wasn't meant to be dodged. Some were learning lesson, and if you didn't learn anything from failed relationships and marriages it is sure to REPEAT itself. Being married in this day and time is HIGHLY overrated!! Being in a relationship is hard enough. Its hard to find a person that is worth the trip..Things are not what they use to be, Women wouldn't dream of leaving a man back in the day, it was for better or worse, now its like null and void.You see somebody you dated long ago, and y'all only dated a short time because somebody showed their azz. All you can think about is Good looking out buddy, Thank God I dodge that bullet...Though we can't always see it at the time, if we look upon events with some perspective, we see things...

Much unhappiness has come into the world because of things left unsaid..People never say what they really mean, talks in a round about way, I am more and more convinced that our happiness or our unhappiness depends far more on the way we meet the events of life than on the nature of those events themselves..But most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. Plenty of people miss their share of happiness, not because they never found it, but because they didn't stop to enjoy it..We fall in and out of love through out our lives..some make us happy some make us unhappy. Some people come into our lives, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never ever the same.You can’t dial down feelings and we can’t turn back time. We can hope, even pray, that these intense feelings, desires & passions for that person, will subside if denied. That the ache in the heart will go away, that it will be filled with some other feeling, other than the love & happiness it...

Be aware of yourself and know yourself. No matter how much you have learned and how much you know, if you don't know yourself you don't know anything. Indeed, if you don't know yourself you cannot know anything else..We get in that comfort zone and get lost there..Dare to be happy!!  Dare too confess it!! What wrong with doing something you want to do!!Why are we afraid, I get sick and tired of people doing or being what other people wants them to be. You know misery no longer loves company, now a days it insist on it.."You have to learn to follow your heart. You can’t let other people pressure you into being something that you’re not. If you want God’s favor in your life, you must be the person He made you to be, not the person your boss wants you to be, not even the person your parents or your husband wants you to be. You can’t let outside expectations keep you from following your own heart.ok maybe you’ve invested a lot of time, effort, money, emotion, and energy in...

There is a difference between a Father and a Dad,.It is easier for a father to have children than for children to have a real father. I was fortunate to have 2 dads.. My dad (Jasper Frankin R.I.P. daddy) and (Roy Callahan Jr. R.I.P. Big daddy)..That was during the times when Parents was Parents.. Now we have Moms being fathers and Dads being mothers..I have seen some fathers had no hand in raising thier sons and daughters but would show up on graduation day..hmmmmm , I have a problem with that, but kids just glad they came..Have you notice that Mothers Day is more popular than Fathers Day? To be totally honest I forgot Sunday was Fathers Day, I realized it when I walked in a store today,  I was like Wow..ok I thought about some more and because my grandfather and both my fathers are deceased and I am divorced, I don't pay it much attention!! Not because my children Dad is not a good father to them, Its because they are grown and I don't have to tell them that fathers day is com...

Happiness resides not in possessions and not in gold; the feeling of happiness dwells in the soul..Why are women chasing after happiness, Money and things will never make you happy, Blocking your blessing, Don't get me wrong material things are not to be despised, without them there can be no manifestation in the material world.. But while you out there looking for Mr right driving that Bmw, Mercedes, etc..He may just be driving a plain old ford 1999 f150,yea ya never know..but that depends on what you are looking for..Love or Things!! If you are looking for Things, then you are that Material Girl and you are on the right track meaningless relationship after relationship. I can understand you want your man/woman to at least have a job career wanting to be more and do more, But chasing cars and stars just don't look good on you. Surely if you don't have nothing, most women will not even look your way. Each of us will one day be judged  by our standard of life, Not by our s...