The Best Thing I Never Had...

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How many of us has Dodged a few bullets in our lifetime? Men and Women for that matter. Men would say: I am glad I did not hook up with that crazy girl, or women would say: Wow I am glad I didn't marry that idiot..Although some bullets wasn't meant to be dodged. Some were learning lesson, and if you didn't learn anything from failed relationships and marriages it is sure to REPEAT itself. Being married in this day and time is HIGHLY overrated!! Being in a relationship is hard enough. Its hard to find a person that is worth the trip..Things are not what they use to be, Women wouldn't dream of leaving a man back in the day, it was for better or worse, now its like null and void.You see somebody you dated long ago, and y'all only dated a short time because somebody showed their azz. All you can think about is Good looking out buddy, Thank God I dodge that bullet...Though we can't always see it at the time, if we look upon events with some perspective, we see things always happen for our best interests. We are always being guided in a way better than we know ourselves. For a relationship to stay alive, love alone is not enough. Without imagination, Relationships fail not because we have stopped loving but because we first stopped imagining..The most important part of any relationship is allowing others to choose their own response to a situation, and of course this is the most difficult part. I know I dodged a lot of bullets I caught a few that I should have dodged..Lord knows that it would take another place, another time, another world, another life Thank God I found the good in goodbye,You know we can blame the other person for a relationship gone sour, but you can rest assure that door swings both ways..the sooner you accept the fact that you contribute to it, and 9 times out of 10 we won't be trying to see that we did anything, that we was only good  to him or her. But as I look back...I did contribute my fair share to some. Some people are just not capable of love period. You can't make anybody feel what they don't feel.. apparently this person I know(I will call him "Black") had a different idea,He texts me this morning and said,,"I will make you love me"..I didn't respond because the last time I did he showed his azz..Honestly he turned out to be the best thing I never had..Oh baby I bet sucks to be you right now....Wait hold up!! I wonder how somebody can make you love them? exactly what does that entail? Well ok then(eating a milky way candy bar)..This should be interesting and probably challenging as well..You know women love a challenge, Bet it sucks to be you right now,Goes around,comes back around..Boo hoo.oh did I SAY..(singing)Bet it sucks to be you right now..Oh but wait..I think I may be liking this attention..or maybe I need to get a life..wudda u think?...hmmmmmmm..lol lol Well pull up a chair why dontcha!!..

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