" Create New Memories "Because Nothing Is As Perfect As You Can Imagine It"

I woke up this morning singing God Praises, I wake up on Sunday Mornings just about the same routine I open all the blinds in the rooms I know I will be in, I put my Inspirational songs on plugged into another device so you can hear it all over the house, I have to start the morning with Isaac Carree, "Clean this house" Because I think we all need to be restored each and every day!! I was preparing to fix my breakfast, I couldn't decide what I wanted to eat, So I said I will fix some salmon grits and eggs.. As I was fixing the salmon, I am thinking about my mama Salmon, I just can't get it just like hers, no matter how many times I try. So I decided to put my own spin on it this time and I think if I tweak it enough I can get it to my taste. It hit me that we will never get it quite like Mama made it. It reminds me of how we search high and low for that woman or man in our life to be just like mama or just like my daddy, We need to re-create new memories, What if you found the woman who could cook like your mother, who smells just like her, who just reminds you of her, and you decided well this is the one, search no more,,  she has the right job, she can take care of me once I retire or not able to work.Well you left out a few things, your values have to be alike.. Did you ever think about what will happen if she is not able to cook anymore, she can't work, or the smell is just not the same, she have changed, Then what? Not only do they need some of the things you would like but you have to have some common value. OK so her body measurements are perfect in every dimension, or he is ripped.. what do you have in common? No one is perfect..“No relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater...The love we have for each other is bigger than these small differences. And that's the key. It's like a big pie chart, and the love in a relationship has to be the biggest piece. Love can make up for a lot. As I was fumbling through some pictures I saw a photo that I had lifted from a friend sibling f/book page, Every time I see that picture it reminds me of Family, You know the crust of the family, She has this face that when you see it you would think she was part of your family( "R.I.P. "Big Mama") of course we would like to re-create the memories, but we have to re- create new memories, Like my childhood friend Gail Richardson, her mom( R.I.P Stella) made the best oatmeal in the world. she use carnation milk, I bought some carnation milk, It still don't taste like hers, but when I see the can of milk I just think back when I was young..We have to create new memories, not forget the old memories, but what worked back then as far as trying to find the right woman or man doesn't work in these times we are living in..Memories warm you up from the inside. But they also tear you apart when you go searching for perfection, If you are in a relationship and still lonely, you are in trouble. It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on because they don't care like you care, they don't feel like you feel..“It is impossible to escape the impression that people commonly use false standards of measurement and the grass is never greener than your own, as to my life  now,when I reached the of age 53,what I want is to be needed. What I need is to be indispensable to somebody. Who I need is somebody that will eat up all my free time, my ego, my attention. Somebody addicted to me. A mutual addiction...“At some point in our lives your memories, your stories, your adventures, will be the only things you'll have left..It is true “There's no way you can get the past right. You can pretend. You can delude yourself, but you can't re-create what's over..So we re-create New Memories..To new beginnings. To the pursuit of...somethingness.