What Do The Lonely Do At Christmas~Hypothetically Speaking of Course..

That's a good question, But really its not a fair question. You can be in a relationship and still be lonely..But I refuse to do that again I pretended to be somebody I wanted to be until finally I became that person. Or she became me. Although most people are as happy as they make up their minds to be..My family take up the slack for not having a man around..I have a big family, But the cold winter nights.. who among us does not choose to be a little less right to be a little less lonely...I try not to entertain that too much..I am a Chestnut roasting on an open fire type chick..It's really not that serious, If I wanted to just be with somebody I could. But I have gotten too old to Just be with somebody. I just about know what I want, to be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness, Discipline is remembering what you want, but Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want. When I think about it, I've been lonely for quite some time even though i was in relationships and one marriage..So what do you do? Wait? But the important thing about learning to wait, I feel sure, is to know what you are waiting for.It is strange that the years teach us patience; that the shorter our time, the greater our capacity for waiting..I think I am tired of being put in a corner..(nobody puts baby(karen) in the corner Dirty Dancing)..You can't stay in your corner of the forest waiting for others to come to you.  You have to go to them sometimes..But Did you know that some men dont want you to pursue them first..That means you will be ignored to the fullest. and this is why most of them miss their blessings. rest assure Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity..