New Years 2011..The Best Mirror is an Old Friend..

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The start of the New Year is a perfect time to start a stop doing list and to make this the cornerstone of your New Year resolutions, be it for your company, your family or yourself. It also is a perfect time to clarify your three circles, mirroring at a personal level the three questions: 1) What are you deeply passionate about? 2)Do you need a Career Change.3) What Love Got To Do With It..I am Deeply passionate about Being the best that I can be..and I really feel that I suppose to be doing something other than what I am doing. I know that for a fact. This year is not gone yet but I decided to stop focusing on Love and looking for a man. I mean if somebody wants to spend some time with me, that's fine and if not that's fine too. It's too exhausting. It's like trying to Nail Jelly To A Tree, My heart is on Vacation,( I can hear the scarecrow singing from the wizard of oz, if i only had a heart) What is meant for you, is already written any way. I can't say that I will stop flirting, that is part of my nature. I never understood why men think because you flirt with them, you want them..That's a myth ..Flirting is attention without intentions. I don't get wrapped up in that anyway, But I can say that I will just drop the negative people that comes a calling. To tolerate fools more gladly, provided this does not encourage them to take up more of my time. I never make New years resolutions its something that goes in one year and out the other. But can one still make resolutions when one is 50?  I live according to twenty-year-old habits. lol.. In 2011 I am determined to  transform, reflect, heal, create...But the one I will keep etched in my mind,, "The Best Mirror is an old Friend"....

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  1. G. RichardsonDecember 25, 2010 at 9:48 PM

    "Like trying to nail jelly to a tree", hmmm ... that is really cool! :)

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