Never Underestimate The Power Of Denial...

You've trained yourself to face reality. You've trained yourself to tell the truth. You've trained yourself to tell it like it is. So in the beginning, these fantasies feel a little inappropriate, because it's like you're fooling yourself. Sometimes people will say, "Well, isn't this just denial?" And we say, we hope so! We hope that you are denying the absence that you do not want. And we hope that you are embracing the presence of what you do. But somehow the idea of denial has become a dirty word to you; like it is virtuous to face the reality of the horror of your own lives. And we would be ignoring anything that did not please us. We would get our eyes on what feels good. Opinion is a denial of truth. For if each man is entitled to his own opinion then there can be nothing which is false, consequently there can be nothing which is true either.I think we all go into this stage where we just dont want to know what the truth is. I ask some one. Well,Are you in love with him? They said yes I love him? I said that's not what i ask you, I said are you IN LOVE with him. because its two different things.she said she didnt think so. I said you can love somebody and still leave them but you are in denial if you think things will get better. There are places where the mind dies so that a truth which is its very denial may be born..and the way i see it, To be in denial is worse than ignorance, not caring is immoral..Nothing and everything cannot coexist. To believe in one is to deny the other. Fear is really nothing and love is everything..I am convinced that      The worst lies are the lies we tell ourselves. We live in denial of what we do, even what we think. We do this because we're afraid. We fear we will not find love, and when we find it we fear we'll lose it. We fear that if we do not have love we will be unhappy.or we can just say It's not denial. I'm just selective about the reality I accept.