When we are no longer able to change a situation:Repostion Yourself..

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves When you change the way you think, you will change the way you feel. When you change the way you feel, you will change the way you act. When you change the way you act, you will change the way you live. When you change the way you live, you will change your world..Everyday we deal with people with different attitudes, some talk in a round about way, some who may or may not speak to you  for what ever reason.and then you have the ones who will lie on point. those are the career liars and then there are those who thinks the sun rises and sets with them in it...oooo la la...then you have the gossip trolls, remember this Whoever gossips to you will gossip about you...Its when you start finding out things about yourself that things begin to change for you. I really never cared what people think about me, nor will i ever. but only when my feelings get thrown under the bus and ran over do i start taken notice of me. Because i love me some me..This is why i can count on one hand my real friends.My best friend is always where i can find her. no we dont see each other everyday, or every month , but when we can. but never but a hop skip and a jump if i need her. Those are the folks we need in our lives.Its sad that we have to deal with the OTHERS..but that's life as we know it.. I hate when we pretend to like somebody..be careful what we pretend to be, because we are what we pretend to be.. Why do we walk around pretending: “The only good in pretending is the fun we get out of fooling ourselves that we fool somebody... I dont like everybody, I dont pretend to like them either..But have you ever liked somebody and you just knew that they liked you too and come to find out yall aint that close..? cuz really they dont like you..How do you reposition yourself? How do you bounce back? How much did it mean to you? How much do it mean to you now?..Those are the million dollar question you asked yourself. How often do we say to ourselves Maybe if i was somewhere else, This situation may be different,.Do you ever get the feeling that this is not where you suppose to be? I dress down all the time, Why?  because that's how i feel..because i know this is not where i suppose to be but a mere u turn in my life of lessons.I will learn what i need and move on to what i called..My Life.. Where i meet the same people that shares my views and can deal with me on the same level. Who knows what team work is. who is not afraid to take chances. I know there are somethings I can't change. But i am going to surround myself with a different set of people, who goals are the same. I want to be treated as an indiviual as well as a group. I have been there done that, But now I want to do me....I think i am smart and intelligent enough to hang with the best of them..it is time for me to correct some mistakes i made while acting on a whim..acting out . giving some false hope. only one thing i worry about, as part of my nature, How do i stop flirting? well I know this will happen when i find a man to take its place. but until then I must do me..:)