If I were a Boy, I think I could understand

If I were a boy I think I could understand How it feels to love a girl I swear I'd be a better man...One of my favorite Beyonce' songs..I say that to say this: At what age to we stop the games? I think when you get to age 45 the games should be over. Why not get serious, life is way too short for the dumb shyt. Some people need to be single. because thier main goal is to use people. But if you like somebody tell them, maybe yall may have something in common. stop making excuses because there isnt any. Either you like them or you don't. If you dont like them, tell them youre not interested. Everybody knows what rejection feel like right? I had one failed marriage, I blame my ex, then I blame myself, now i am over it..I know marriage is a two way street, We changed and forgot to tell each other..We were not meant to be together, we live and learn, but we dont build a wall because the same wall we build to keep certain kind of folks out is the same wall that's keeping happiness from coming in. Sometimes you have to lower your standards. Some folks standards are too high, chances of them really finding somebody is really slim... What if you found the right person that fit your criteria. looks, jobs, etc. and you seems to like her..but come to find out its this little thing that annoys the heck out of you..hmmmm..well noone is perfect, they dont exsist..you wont like everything anyway. You learn to accept each differences..or just miss out..some folks have a habit of going after the same type of women/men with the same background, Is that working for you? after the second failed realtionship i think i would try something different..But you're just a boy You don't understand And you don't understand, oh How it feels to love a girl Someday you wish you were a better man.....