"Just Being Me"

IN THIS LIFE IT'S EITHER YOU LOVE ME AND ACCEPT ME FOR ME OR YOU HATE ME THERE IS NO IN BETWEEN.. There is a risk involved in everything Every time you share a smile Every time you shed a tear You are opening yourself up to hurt. Some people tread slowly through life,Avoiding the closeness risk brings,Side-stepping the things they can't understand Turning away from those who care too much, Those who care stay too long,Those who hold too tightly, There is never an easy way to love You can not approach it cautiously It will not wait for you to arm yourself.It does not care if you turn away It is everywhere, it is everything. In the name of love, how much love is lost? To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness (robert brault). ..Love is, above all, the gift of oneself....and then there are those days when want to say Forget love - I'd rather fall in chocolate! 

I shall never fear or avoid things of which I do not know.. I do know that you block your dream when you allow your fear to grow bigger than your faith. there is a time to take councel of your fears and there are times when to never listen to any fear. Desire is the need to add something to yourself in order to be yourself fully. Can we seperate wants from desires? Lust from Love or like? After a few (or many) bad relationships, it's so easy to shut down, give up, and stop believing that the right person is out there for us. Our hearts yearn to fall in love, but our minds insist it's not possible, and we enter into a tug-of-war with ourselves. It's as if one part of us is screaming, "Yes! I deserve a great relationship!" while another part insists, "I'll never find him or her." When our beliefs contradict our desires, we experience an inner conflict that not only paralyzes us, but can actually prevent us from recognizing the possibilities for love th...

I may not be the one you asked for. I may not be the one you expect. I am however, the one who was sent. A lot of people don't know how that works. God put people in our lives for a reason. some are just passing thru and some stay a while. and some are there to teach us some life lessons.Our lives are filled with doorways. We call them transitions. They each take us to a new adventures. Some doorways appear to hold us back but when we later remember them, we find that they actually moved us forward, we just weren't aware of it at the time. Some people learn from their mistakes, others avoid making many mistakes by learning from the mistakes of others. We always wonder why we are here, or why this person came into our lives, well everthing happens for a reason. We do things to try to avoid what's going on in our lives, but our lives have already been written, but we try to change it because this is not what we want.. Souls do not need to be saved. Egos need clarification. ...

Karen's Reality: ~Nuthin But a Collective Hunch~: Flirting....Attention without Intention.. : "Hmmmmmmm..or the art of keeping intimacy at a safe distance.I flirt maybe more than i can care to count a day, Because I am single, I feel l..."

Hmmmmmmm..or the art of keeping intimacy at a safe distance.I flirt maybe more than i can care to count a day, Because I am single, I feel like I can do this, but where do we draw the line?..Would i flirt with a married man? Not intentionally, Would I flirt with a Single man, Why of course Only if I am physically attracted to him. Does it matters if he's in a relationship, Well....you know..If he is in a relationship and he loves the one he's with..It shouldnt matter what i say right? In my mind, He's just a single guy. meaning not married. But i dont do that often. Flirting is the art of making a man feel pleased with himself. I flirt sometimes knowing and sometimes i dont know until later that's what i was doing. If you are physically attracted to somebody it dont mean you want them all the time, it means that you are attracted to them. Some women flirt more with what they say, and some with what they do...I dont make a career out of it. Flirting is a lot like fashion...

I think we as women deserve a Mental Health Day at least once a month and on a Monday..A desire to be in charge of our own lives, a need for control, is born in each of us. It is essential to our mental health, and our success, that we take control.The key to both mental and physical health is not to mourn the past, anticipate trouble, or worry about the future; but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly.A day to visit ourselves..There are two kinds of satisfaction or happiness:  one mainly through mental peace;  another physical comfort. They say Stress is nothing more than a socially acceptable form of mental illness..hmmmm that maybe true in some form. How I take care of myself mentally, emotionally, and physically is a reflection of my spiritual evolution.. 

The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don't know anything about,.Who is to judge one flower to be a weed and another to be a delight? The weed was a delight unto itself before judgment arrived. Now it is rejected, deprived of love and must spread to be noticed..Often times we get hung up on what people are saying about another.We never stop to ask or to get to know a person. and nine times out of 10 we think we are too good for them anyway..There is only one good, knowledge, and one evil, ignorance.. I think that Fear always springs from ignorance. We allow our ignorance to prevail upon us and make us think we can survive alone, alone in patches, alone in groups, alone in races, even alone in genders.And as Martin Luther King always said...Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity..real talk